Forward written by Hillel I.
Swiller, MD
"An absence of structure afflicts a vast
number of contemporary American families. There are many sources
of this dreadful phenomenon including substance abuse, mental
illness, divorce, illegitimacy, financial pressures, and moral
inadequacy, to name just a few. Whatever the primary sources of
the lack of family structure may be, the absence of structure
itself invariably leads the family further down the spiral of
despair, dysfunction, disease and delinquency.
Dr. Matthew A. Johnson ("Dr. J.") and his
F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules parenting system offer a powerful alternative
to family chaos. F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules presents a solid and
coherent structure for families in need. In this book, he first
presents a philosophical and intellectual framework for
F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules and then presents the system itself in an
absolutely clear and straightforward manner.
F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules is a product of who and
what "Dr. J." himself is, a child of a family with problems, an
outstanding competitive athlete, a dedicated and highly trained
professional, and a man of strong conviction who practices what
he believes.
While F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules is highly
structured, it is not rigid. Within the structure is plenty of
room for individuality and creativity just as the rules of
basketball leave room for the individuality and creativity of a
Michael Jordan or a Dr. J.
Families who understand and correctly and
consistently implement F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules will be protected from
many of the most pernicious ills of our time. I am pleased to
recommend F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules."
Hillel I. Swiller, MD, FAPA, FAGPA
Clinical Professor of
Psychiatry
Mount Sinai School of
Medicine
New York, New York
"I spend a great deal of time working with
AT RISK children and their families. I have observed that
organization and structure helps to greatly improve the family
environment. Dr. Johnson’s book, F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules, helps
parents to restore responsibility and respect in their homes.
Children and adolescents learn to obey their parents and other
authority figures at school, church, and in their community.
Everyone learns to communicate their expectations and
friendships develop as a result. The whole family wins with
F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules!"
Mark Eaton, Former All-Star Center,
Utah Jazz
"Raising healthy, responsible, contented
children is a challenge! Most parents grew up with little
experience in child rearing, then suddenly find themselves
responsible for the 24-hour care of a precious little one who
eats, sleeps, breathes, and acts in ways which alternately
delight and frustrate. In a simple, direct, light-hearted, and
principled way, Dr. Johnson’s book, F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules, provides
a practical instruction manual for helpfully dealing with the
inevitable challenges of parenting."
Rodger K. Bufford, Ph.D.,
Professor and Director of
Integration, Graduate School of Clinical Psychology, George Fox
University.
"Dr. Johnson’s book, F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules,
provides the best way to run a family whether you think you’ve
got it together or not. Applying concepts of F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules
in our family was a major key to our successful journey from
chaos and rebellion to a place of family wholeness and peace.
Most importantly, applying F.A.M.I.L.Y. Rules in our family got
dad and mom on the same sheet of music, clarified our family
priorities, and gave us the structure we needed to succeed.
Thanks, "Dr. J." for showing the world again, that you don’t
want to live outside of F.A.M.I.L.Y.’s rules!"
James M. Dorman, Lt. Col., USAF.
"Great book! Dr. Johnson’s ideas will help
anyone with kids."
Ken Giles, Nobody you know but a
husband and father of two beautiful girls, Columbia, S.C.
"Positive Parenting with a Plan is the best
parenting book on the planet! It works well with my little hairy
kids."

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